Relseek

What is Relseek?

Relseek is an independent website that creates tools to help people compare dating apps using clear criteria, transparent limitations, and regularly reviewed information. Its current focus is on polyamory, ethical non-monogamy (ENM), and relationship anarchy, offering a dedicated Poly & ENM Dating App Finder.

The site provides hands-on reviews and comparisons of eight apps: Feeld, OkCupid, #Open, helloPOLY, Hinge, MoreThanOne, Plura, and Poly: Black & Dating. It also includes an interactive wizard that narrows down apps based on user preferences.

How Relseek works

The core tool is the Poly App Finder, a five-question wizard that takes about 60 seconds to complete. It asks about country/region, device (iPhone/iOS, Android, or web browser), profile setup, connection goal, and optional preferences and price. The recommendation logic runs entirely in the user's browser, and answers are not sent to a server.

Relseek uses a structured database with named 0–3 fields for use mode, goal, selected priorities, and payment preference. A Fit Score is calculated with weights: use mode 35%, goal 20%, selected priorities 20%, and payment preference 15%. The score is adjusted for evidence quality, and hard availability or profile conflicts display 0%. Unknown fields are excluded from the denominator and can prevent a "Strong fit" label.

Main features

• Poly App Finder: A 5-question wizard that recommends apps based on country, device, profile setup, connection goal, and preferences.
• Hands-on reviews: Detailed reviews of eight poly and ENM dating apps, updated as of August 2026.
• Comparison views: Users can switch between overview, ENM features, price & platforms, and privacy & safety views.
• Evidence-backed scoring: Fit Scores are based on a transparent framework, with limitations clearly stated.
• Community feedback integration: Reviews incorporate official product information and community discussions from App Store, Google Play, and Reddit.

Pricing

Relseek itself is free to use. The Poly App Finder requires no signup and is free. The site does not charge for access to reviews or comparisons. The pricing of the dating apps it reviews varies, but Relseek does not list specific prices for those apps on the provided pages.

Common use cases

• Finding a poly-friendly dating app: Users can quickly identify which apps support ENM features like partner linking, couple profiles, or non-monogamy labels.
• Comparing apps by device or region: The finder filters out apps unavailable on a user's device or in their country.
• Understanding app limitations: Relseek highlights each app's main limitation, such as Feeld's lack of a web client or #Open's uncertain continuity.
• Learning about privacy and safety: The comparison includes privacy and safety aspects, such as incognito browsing and blocking features.

Limitations

• Not a predictor of success: Fit Scores do not predict dating success, response rates, or the number of compatible people nearby.
• Local feedback is contextual: City notes are summaries of community discussions, not verified user counts, and do not affect the Fit Score.
• Unknown fields are not assumed: Missing data is excluded from scoring but can reduce data coverage and prevent a "Strong fit" label.
• Limited app database: Currently covers only eight apps, which may not include all available poly dating apps.
• No pricing details: Relseek does not provide specific pricing for the apps it reviews on the provided pages.

Summary

Relseek is an independent, evidence-based resource for comparing poly and ENM dating apps. Its interactive finder and detailed reviews help users make informed decisions, with a strong emphasis on transparency and limitations. While it does not predict dating success, it offers a structured way to narrow down options based on personal preferences and device availability.